In response to a recent media debate that was stirred up in response to an article about whether women can actually "have it all," I say bring "it" on! 

Women have an inborn capacity to take on more than most men deem possible. From pioneer women who plowed the fields to those who broke through the glass ceiling, our abilities have been underestimated throughout history. Even by ourselves. The "it" of "it" may be a carrot of less nutritional value than estimated, and in fact rejected by astute women who know themselves well enough not to be lured by ephemera, and who value what they do have already without having to hyper-extend their reach.

But for those who believe that fulfillment can only be attained by stretching their limits, they should be allowed to do so without criticism and with our sisterly support. Their innate wisdom will let them know when "it" is not worth it. Or they will find that "it" is and enjoy the moment. Personally, I am far less judgmental and more pragmatic in my dotage, now that I've already had "it" all.